Hayley Davies still remembers the nights she left the bar at 2 a.m.
Not as an intoxicated patron.
But as an employee whose task it was to wipe down tables, empty the trash and lock the doors in the wee hours of the morning. It was Davies's first-ever job, and as the weeks and months wore on, the schedule became grueling.
Especially for a 14-year-old.
âIâm pretty sure that wasnât even legal,â Davies chuckles.
Indeed, the grind began early for Davies.
Unhappy with her home situation in New Zealand and battling a mild case of depression, she moved out of her parent's house after middle school and into her own apartment. She juggled jobs at two different restaurantsâincluding one that transitioned into a bar at nightâwhile taking her high school courses online.
âI had zero time for anything else,â Davies says. âI was consumed by studying and work.â
Demanding as the routine may have been, Davies relished her independence and embraced the challenge. She learned the importance of being organized, responsible, relentless and upbeatâtraits that would later become her hallmarks.
After only a few months, Davies was making $1,500 per weekâalmost double the amount of her monthly rent. At age 15, she paid thousands for a full-sleeve tattoo on her right arm, a project that took 12 straight hours to complete. The following year she bought herself a car.
A few years later, Davies altered her course.
She dropped out of school and began studying software development, eventually landing a full-time job in IT. Davies didnât mind the workââIâve always loved problem solving,â she saysâbut the pay was mediocre.
When Davies decided to relocate to Australia at age 19, she didnât have the funds to cover the trip. A friend who was an exotic dancer convinced Davies to start stripping. After only a few weeks, Davies had more than enough money for the move.
Davies, though, couldnât find an IT job in Australia that she liked. She moved back to New Zealand and returned to the gentlemenâs club, working late hours after spending all day at a desk.
âMy family had always told me, âOh my God, donât ever do that!ââ Davies says of stripping. âAnd I was always like, âNo way! I would never!â But there I was, not only doing it but loving it.â