PornCrush: Cami, thanks for joining us. Tell us a little bit about your background. What was your life like before entering the adult industry?
Cami: First of all, thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited to talk to you and so excited to be here. Yeah, I've kind of lived all over the place. I primarily grew up in the southeast. I was born and raised in Virginia and grew up a little bit in Georgia, just outside of Atlanta. So I am like a southeast Southern girl at heart as much as I hate to admit it. I do have very specific traditional values, like when the guy walks on the sidewalk side or opens the car door for me, but that's probably the only traditional things that I have about myself. But yeah, I am a first generation American, the daughter of two wonderful parents from Peru. I’m actually Peruvian and Scottish. My grandfather was a Scottish man. That's why my hair is kind of reddish sometimes, with a weird reddish tint to it. But I am primarily Latina.
PornCrush: There's nothing wrong with being a Southerner, Cami! I’m actually one myself.
Cami: I had a great upbringing in the South, running around barefoot, playing with bugs in the dirt. I loved it. I went to college originally in Northern Virginia and that’s kind of where things went toward left field. So bear with me for a moment as I tell the story. The summer before my final year of college, when I was an undergrad, I joined a cult.
PornCrush: Right, I'd heard about this! Tell me more.
Cami: I joined a multi-level marketing company that turned out to be very religious. And people say, oh, that's not a cult. It's just a multi-level marketing scheme. Some people call them pyramid schemes. But I was involved specifically with a training group that was very conservative, very religious. They had me become a born-again virgin. They discovered I watched porn once and they had me go to what I call “slut conversion therapy.” Very weird.
I basically dropped out of school and moved across the country to Seattle for it. I had this yearlong, weird “eat, pray, love journey” where I was part of this organization. I was trying to recruit people. It was somewhat akin to a Mary Kay or Avon kind of thing. We sold a lot of different products, but ultimately, it was a very weird experience. They thought yoga, for instance, was something the devil made up. I didn’t know about this when I joined and neither did the person that got me involved. I lasted in Seattle for a year. But I learned so much about business. They had you read a lot of books; business books, nonfiction books.
I listened to different audio tapes every day, audio books. It was weird to say, but (the cult) actually kinda focused my brain on a business mindset. Everything I know about finances, about how to run a business, I learned from being in a cult.
So it's because of them that I'm now able to be successful as an independent creator, an entrepreneur, and be able to run my business successfully. So yeah, I lasted in Seattle for a year and then I kind of got “over it” and moved back to the East Coast.
PornCrush: It sounds like a psychological cult more than anything, a mind control kind of thing.
Cami: Yes, and their whole thing was to put you around wealthy people, or at least the perception of wealth. These people had private jets. really nice cars and boats. Generally, decent life advice is to take advice. And they all said to only take advice from people with fruit on the tree. Which generally makes sense. It's the same thing in the adult industry. You ask people who are already successful for advice, not people that are brand new. It’s the same thing in life. You want to ask someone for advice who you want to emulate, right? Someone who has what you already want. But definitely more on the psychological end of things, because it wasn't like a commune. I didn't live anywhere that was a community-based thing. It was very much psychological, for sure.
PornCrush: For someone who had been somewhat promiscuous in her life leading up to that point, I’d assume the restrictions surrounding sex and sexual content were tough to accept.
Cami: Yeah, I think that was like my greatest sin. It was super weird. I didn't grow up religious. So it was just really like, “I’m 23, and I guess I’m religious now.” My whole goal was to be retired by 25. And I'm thinking, “Well, I see all these rich, successful people and they're religious. So maybe this is just the path.” I don't know. I was young, dumb and full of cum, you know, And I just wanted to win. I just wanted to win so badly in life. And I just thought I would do whatever it took to just win at life.
So I moved back to the East Coast and finished school. I finished up my undergrad degree and then pursued my graduate degree in occupational therapy with a specialty in neurology or, like, neurological rehabilitation. Because of all the sexual repression I endured for the year or two prior, I really wanted to make a big deal on addressing sexuality in the medical field. That was my original goal. I also wanted to work with military veterans. So few medical providers know how to talk about sex. They're always so embarrassed. They don’t know how to answer certain questions. For instance, if you have a hip replacement or a knee replacement, or you are going through chemotherapy, no doctor wants to talk to you about safe positioning to have sex. But sex is an activity of daily life, of daily living. We call them ADLs in the occupational therapy world. It's a function of life, you know, and everyone deserves to have a healthy relationship with sexuality, whether you have a disability or not.
So I first did that for a little bit. And then eventually, while I was in grad school, after my first round of clinical rotations, my cohort found out I was doing porn to pay for school. I had already gotten to the point where I was very successful with OnlyFans. I gained a lot of my notoriety through TikTok and I ended up becoming verified on TikTok. And at that point I already had like 50,000-60,000 paying fans, which is crazy. It blew up very quickly.